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February 15, 2014

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Yep. Harping on this or that is a well-known crime in my neck of the woods. And I'm sure I've been guilty of it many times! I got in the terrible habit of repeating myself when I worked for someone who never listened, and later would say "you never told me that." So I'd say things over...and over...and over...
I think I'm still trying to stop harping on things!

It's a common saying up here in the Flatlands, too.

I've been harping all winter and now my husband is too. LOL Men do it too.

Tipper,
Yes, it does bother me too. One time
my oldest niece told me she liked the
e-mails best, cause that way you
could talk to someone without listening.
How true! ...Ken

Tipper, men harp as well as women. I had heard this all my life. Stop your harping you sound like a broke record.

Yes, I know the expression well and I use it too. My daddy would say quit your yapping or stop bumping your gums so much! I've never thought about where the word harping came from but my wife has harped on me a few times about one thing or the other. : )

Gosh! That is one of my words when I get reminded a number of times to do something pronto. I might eventually ask them to stop harping on it. Also, I think the news stations keep harping on particular subjects.

Tipper,
Yes, I sometimes talk overmuch without a thought about it until someone says, "I heard you the first time"! LOL
I'm guilty, I 'fess up, I'm done, won't do it agin!
Until I hear, "I can't believe it, he was right there, 2" from the basket, (or goal) and could'nt make the points. How could they miss that many! They need to change the line-up or put so and so in the game or make this play, or change up the defence....ya, da, ya, da!
Then I start! It is only a game, how can one worry so over a game, forget about it, ya da ya da......LOL
Yes, men do it too....but maybe they think that "ballgame talk overmuch', is not harping!
Thanks Tipper,
Loved this post!

We were told a many a times growing up to quit harping. We were told not to "waller" either. We would have many disappointments in life and it was ok to be disappointed but you didn't waller. In Daddy's words "suck it up and go on".

hmmm - I know plenty of men who "harp" on things also!! Definitely still have family using this one from the tip o'Texas through the central plains.

Kinda cool the way the two definitions you found fit with the use in mythology.

Yes...it's a word I use fairly often. 'Quit harping on that',... 'they harped and harped on it'. Haven't thought that much about the word before, either, but I think it does a fine job at getting the point across. I liked what Ms Ethelene said...harp less!

Seems to me the Juice, Jews, Jaw Harp is a more appropriate personification application here. It plays only one note over and over and over and over and over again and again and again and occasionally flips bits of frothy slobber on unawary, tone deaf listeners.

I grew up where people used "He (or she) harps on and on about that..." and they would repeat what the perpetrator of "many words" was over-talking about! And yes! Sometimes that over-active tongue would be an instrument of torture! I think I learned early in life that harping was not the answer to my wishes, however sincerely I approached my requests. What I learned also became a lesson for me--and a mode to practice as a teacher--"You cannot harp and get done what you want people to do!" Find something to commend; and harp less! And you know what? That worked, many, many times--in the classroom, and in seeking to rear my own children!

Thanks for the info on "harping". I have used this all my life and never really thought much about it until now. I agree that the first definition is also appropriate for the receiver of all the "harping".

I've been harping about this snow that's been on the ground for two weeks. Mom used to say, "quit grumbling."

In ancient mythology, there was a creature that was part human and part bird. They were called Harpies and they tormented people. Perhaps there is a connection to our expression of harping.

Well Tipper, I don't what to keep harping about that word. But my mother sure used it when she wanted one of her eleven children to stop complaining about an issue she could not settle. All it took was her blue-eyed glare and that harping word and our talking ceased! Yes I still remember but hardly ever use that word!

Eva Nell

Tipper I sure enjoy your post. Harp is a word we use here in Lewis Co. Tn. My mom has said many times, now quit your harping and get to work or one of my brothers would say, don't you be harping on me. Be blessed. John

This is a familiar turn of speech to me. Usually phased in a negative way. Everybody around here has been harping on and on about the weather. Fortunately they can't change it.

Yes, indeed it does. Sometimes I think if they would just shut up for 2 minuets I could breath. But no, they just continue harping on the same thing what seems like forever!
Yes, sometimes a mouth is in instrument of torture.

I always thought it was a talent that God gave women,, (just kidding), but I do find in my area more women than men "harp" on things more...and O yea fills like nails on a chalk board...

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